This is what I am doing on a daily basis.
If you ask me how I am doing and I say "great" - I want it to be true.
If you come to my home and is seems filled with Peace and Beauty - I want that by design - not just appearance.
And if you tell me that my wife and I seem very happy together - it needs to be because we both put in the work necessary for a Happy relationship and it manifests itself outward.
Not how things LOOK - but how they actually ARE.
It's called Work for a reason.
I'm Working Toward Actually.